7. You cannot be popular with everybody
你無法取悅每個人
It’s just chemistry. There are people who will rub you up the wrong way, will be bitchy, and will be downright unhelpful in the workplace. You can adopt a few avoidance strategies to reduce the fallout. Get over it and enjoy the company of the real friends you have。
只不過是個化學反應而已。在職場上有些人會惹惱你，有些人會讓你抓狂，有些人對你絲毫起不到幫助作用。你可以采取一些規(guī)避策略以減少對你的影響�？朔切┎焕绊懴硎苣愕暮门笥雅惆橹愕拿篮脮r光。
8. You learn from failure
你要從失敗中學習經驗教訓
Everybody screws up. You know that perfection is impossible. Every time you have a disaster, do not beat yourself up. Just ask yourself how you could have avoided the trap or planned it better. In this way you can learn a few life lessons from failure。
每個人都有搞砸的時候，人生不可能始終完美無缺。每次遭遇災難你不要責怪自己，自己想辦法如何避免落入陷阱或做個比較好的計劃。這樣你可以從失敗中學習一些人生的經驗教訓。
9. Nobody else will praise you
沒有人會表揚你
Time to give yourself a pat on the back for all your achievements. Don’t be afraid to list them in your head when you get discouraged. Give yourself a score for each finished task. This keeps you strong when facing life’s harsh realities。
對于你自己取得的成就，要自己表揚一下自己。氣餒時不要害怕不要心慌，每完成一個任務要給自己打個分數(shù)，這會讓你堅強地面對殘酷的現(xiàn)實生活。
10. Toxic company is bad for you
消極的朋友對你沒好處
You know the people I mean. These are the whiners, the pessimists, the miserable ones, the cheap ones, the nasty types, and the prejudiced. They make a lousy team. Try to gravitate towards the optimistic and passionate people who will help you see the brighter side of life。
你知道我所指的這類人：牢騷滿腹者、悲觀主義者、悲慘可憐者、小氣不大度的人、脾氣不好的人、有偏見的人，這類人會讓整個團隊都變得糟糕不堪。盡量和樂觀充滿激情的人相處，有助于你看到生活光明的一面。
11. Money is tight
資金很緊張
Nobody wants to be stalked by debt or creditors. You have to work out how best to stay within your budget. Think of ways to save, like having packed lunches. Never go shopping without a list. Avoid impulsive buys. Use cash as much as you can. Leave the credit cards at home as they tend to lull you into a fantasy world。
沒人愿意債務纏身或成為欠債的人，生活開支費用最好不要超出預算。想辦法節(jié)省一下預算，像午飯吃便當;去購物時拉一個清單，避免沖動購物;盡量用現(xiàn)金消費，把信用卡放在家里，因為信用卡消費起來沒有概念。
12. Invest in kindness
善心投資
Doing acts of kindness every day to people at work or those in difficulty will pay handsome dividends. People will return the kindness. Investing in kindness is like having savings in the bank. They will always earn a little interest. What goes around comes around. There is also an added bonus in that it makes you feel good for a while。
每天為同事或者有困難的人慷慨解囊做些善事，人們會回報你的善舉。投資善事就像在銀行里存錢，總會賺取些許利潤回報，善有善報。另外還有一個好處，做善事會讓你很長一段時間都感覺良好。
13. Be accountable for your behavior
你要對自己的行為負責
If you behave badly, rudely or take unnecessary risks, then you have to be totally accountable for what you have done. You have to take the responsibility for your behavior. Another harsh lesson from the life arena! Taking the consequences, not blaming others and apologizing for harm done have to be on your to do list。
如果你的表現(xiàn)不好、粗魯或冒險，那么你就得對你的所作所為完全負責。你要為你的行為負責。從人生大舞臺上學到另外一個嚴酷的現(xiàn)實教訓!承擔后果不是責備他人，自己要對傷害性的所作所為道歉。
14. Look forward
要向前看
There is no escape. Life is wonderful but it is really hard work. Now is the time to start afresh。
不要逃避現(xiàn)實。生活很美好但也很艱難，從現(xiàn)在開始重新生活。
“All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming。” – Helen Keller
“盡管世界充滿了磨難，但戰(zhàn)勝磨難的例子也比比皆是。”——海倫-凱勒
